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Post by sunnydays on Jan 28, 2021 18:59:39 GMT
I thought about this phrase whilst listening to Boris state that it was highly unlikely that anything would alter before March 8th with regards restrictions. Jeepers I thought, as it seemed a long way down the road, but we are all in this together and so my speel on here is to say that if anyone if feeling hemmed in, having lockdown dumps or generally just feeling sad. Spit it all out and we will hear you and help if we can. That's what we do. Anyone want to start the rant ??
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Post by jax2 on Jan 28, 2021 19:12:16 GMT
This week has felt quite a gloomy & sad one ... passing the 100k deaths from Covid, Holocaust Memorial Day, extended lockdown, now wrangling over vaccines, I'm sure we are moving in the right direction but not very quickly. My OH's birthday is 3rd April, so last year it was in lockdown, looks like this year it may be as well.
I am acutely aware that I'm luckier than lots of people, but some days it's hard to see that light at the end of the tunnel.
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Post by sunnydays on Jan 28, 2021 22:45:59 GMT
To my double star autumn pal  These days at this time of the year are always the hardest to feel positive in normal times and I agree with everything that you have mentioned. Having listened to yet another scientist who basically stated that by March of last year there were already 1200 strains of this virus in our little overcrowded island in comparison to so many of our European friends ( possibly not for long)so at that stage we were on a hiding to nothing to try and do a catch up and that our climate is the prefect breeding ground for this virus, then it all seems to make sense why we appear to be so badly hit. I read about the disagreements over vaccines and feuding never seems to alter over time. Being vaccinated will help to ease anxiety but I think I have resigned myself to the thoughts of merely enjoying once again the areas close to home and the simple pleasures of having family to share moments with. In a way I feel that society was getting ahead of itself and needed a reality check. As parents you always try to be positive and supportive. Keeping their spirits up is often difficult, they are more in shock than us. It is what it is and we just have to deal with it as best we can. I'd share my giant white Toblerone with you, something I won't even do with my OH, except I ate the last two pieces tonight, thinking it might compensate for a long day. It didn't, it hasn't and it has left me struggling with an inner body warmth due to my own greedy indulgence !! Manana, manana as my dear old dad would always say
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Post by linda on Jan 29, 2021 8:44:57 GMT
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Post by trisha on Jan 29, 2021 13:12:06 GMT
Just before the first lockdown I was not really ready to go out and face the future. Now that's not a possibility, I feel in some sort of limbo just waiting to venture out. But, there's no where to go. No days out, no holiday to look forward to. I haven't seen my son and his family for over a year now. The days are getting longer and spring is just round the corner. Fingers crossed that we get another lovely summer.
Trisha
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Post by sunnydays on Jan 29, 2021 15:19:16 GMT
Bravo Linda ! This is exactly what I was hoping that this thread would achieve. We all need somewhere to vent our frustration on gloomy days and perhaps this spot may help to do just that. Even if you are not so inclined to write your thoughts, just reading others, may help to realise that you are not on your own. Just need to get over these next few dismal dreary weeks and as Trisha has said, spring is not too far away and hopefully family visits will be around the corner. Keep ranting !
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Post by Bellatrix on Jan 29, 2021 16:55:55 GMT
Sorry Trisha, to hear you have not seen your son for a year, that's tough. I haven't seen mine since August as his new year planned visit had to be cancelled. I was feeling sad about this when I read your post which put this into perspective. Future plans are put on hold, but dream big you can still plan for the future, just write them down
I am going with the flow of all this, I am lucky, I have a project. The vaccine is being rolled out, mums had her 1st one, things are looking up.
Agree with your sentiments SD, not a bad thing to stop and look at what the world had become.
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Post by linda on Jan 30, 2021 9:41:13 GMT
Wales is probably going to close all the public toilets coz of Covid !!!! hat about the homeless or people with medical problems. Read this !!! www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-55795277PS: Now I can't go any ****ING where !
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Post by Cj on Jan 30, 2021 17:49:25 GMT
I think this is the hardest lockdown so far, the longer this continues the daily and personal challenges seem insurmountable. BUT....the news re the vaccination programme is incredibly optimistic, the UK literally showing the rest of Europe how great we truly are....I am keen to take that on board and believe that in a few months we will begin to see the light again. 'Every day may not be a good day, but there is something good in every day' I hope that is the case for us all here, today my 'good' thing was that I was told I didn't need to have my arm operated on after a fall as it was healing so well.....and the fact that I have made dumplings for the first time in the slow cooker.....and they are scrummy....all with me left hand....  .....and I am able to type this post with me left hand too So, what was the 'something good' in your day today....however small it may seem?
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Post by jax2 on Jan 30, 2021 19:37:39 GMT
OH & I had a nice What's App chat with both my kids today, which was good. I miss seeing them in the flesh, but it's a good way of keeping in touch.
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Post by Lancashire Lass on Jan 30, 2021 21:31:06 GMT
Well firstly my father-in-law died yesterday so that is a huge downer for all our family. He had had pneumonia and then caught Covid while being treated in hospital. I sent flowers to all of our children this week to cheer them up in preparation as to what was to come. Something wonderful I learnt of yesterday was that my godson’s wife gave birth to a beautiful baby boy on Thursday. As my husband said, one in, one out!
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Post by magggzzz on Jan 30, 2021 22:02:23 GMT
I’m so sorry LL. Your poor family. No matter how old and difficult he was it must still be such a shock.
My day has been dominated by a horrible migraine. Normally they’re not too bad but this was a nasty one. So a bit of a nothing day for me.
My son has been looking at houses. He’s looked at quite a few now but he’s decided he really wants to live in Didsbury. Those of you who know Manchester will know that it’s very much the trendy place for young professionals. We lived in Didsbury when we were first married but it wasn’t like that then. If only we’d been able to keep that flat. I know it’s 30 years since we sold it but it’s now worth about 12 times what we sold it for..possibly more.
He’s looking at one on Tuesday which from the map may actually be built on the same spot where I started my working life in the hospital labs.
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Post by sunnydays on Jan 30, 2021 22:14:54 GMT
Thinking of you LL and sending love and hugs. A true character a type that is disappearing xx
Didsbury is a really trendy place Magggzzz. My nephew lived there a few years back, but it is expensive ? I know the young are missing that side of life, understandably, but hopefully it won't be for too much longer.
The 'something good' in my day was seeing my dog Ruben looking happy catching sticks that we threw in the pouring rain. The happiest I've seen him since his sister passed.
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Post by jax2 on Jan 30, 2021 22:20:35 GMT
I was wondering how he was doing SD, glad he's getting used to being an only dog x
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Post by Bellatrix on Jan 30, 2021 22:58:35 GMT
I love dumplings CJ, haven't had them in so long. Now reminded me to put some in the casserole on Monday. Gad you are managing with your left hand, shows how adaptable we are as humans in all sorts of ways.
Nice news to hear about Ruben SD, takes them time too, they feel sad like us.
Awful news Linda, you must be feeling like a prisoner. but as CJ said there is hope on the horizon. True about the UK striding ahead, always had faith in this country against adversity.
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