I have just bought this: The carer......Mandy is such a godsend or is she? by Deborah Moggach (author of Best Exotic Marigold Hotel)
I haven't started it yet (YD is home from Uni and haven't had many free moments) but I heard them talking about it on Radio 4, I think it's humorous darkly and I think the author based it on some of the funny things that happened in her own life when her mother had a carer.
Has anyone else read this?
There is a lot to be said for being part of a group, and the support and friendship that is gained from this.