|
|
Post by sunnydays on Feb 2, 2021 20:20:10 GMT
Which one are you ?
I am definitely black and white. Struggle with this smudgy indecisiveness. If you didn't know whether to dip your toe in the water, I would probably push you in !
I am not a great one for having long in depth discussions about making decisions, when it comes to myself and family although I do hope I am more considerate to others.
My OH is grey and will drag things out mercilessly(out of cruel enjoyment) which is probably another reason why I am so the opposite !
|
|
jax2
Winter
Posts: 1,063 
|
Post by jax2 on Feb 2, 2021 21:03:19 GMT
I used to be indecisive .... now i'm not so sure  |
|
linda
Winter
Posts: 1,609
|
Post by linda on Feb 3, 2021 8:10:03 GMT
Black & white in what context sunnydays. As far as photography goes def black & white. Dad was a professional photographer so I think that's why. And as for films (when I used to be able to watch them re my epilepsy, the screen flickers even though you don't register it, your brain does.) Films ...def black & white also.
|
|
|
|
Post by Bellatrix on Feb 3, 2021 11:10:57 GMT
My dad loved photography too Linda , have some lovely photographs he took  but think SD is meaning as in decision making.
I am black and white then worry that I've made the right decision  |
|
|
|
Post by Lancashire Lass on Feb 3, 2021 12:14:18 GMT
I wouldn’t say I was indecisive rather that I have to consider every option from every viewpoint. Does that make me grey?
|
|
linda
Winter
Posts: 1,609
|
Post by linda on Feb 3, 2021 12:59:33 GMT
My dad loved photography too Linda , have some lovely photographs he took but think SD is meaning as in decision making.
I am black and white then worry that I've made the right decision Oh well B & W definitely, can't be doing with indecisiveness, confusion etc. I'm all for the Plain English Campaign. |
|
|
|
Post by vwcamperfan on Feb 3, 2021 13:41:28 GMT
I am a cautious Black and White - I used to make rushed decisions and usually lived to regret them. These days I do think twice before acting, but don't endlessly mull things over
|
|
Jazzy
Winter
Jazzy
Posts: 1,405
|
Post by Jazzy on Feb 3, 2021 13:55:46 GMT
I need to think about this 😃
|
|
|
|
Post by Beckyboo on Feb 3, 2021 14:10:13 GMT
Definitely Black & White - I make decisions very quickly - hubby is the opposite.. 🙄😄 for example, I was/am quite interested in having an electric car - I was chatting to number 2 son about it about 6 months ago and he totally knew where I was coming from - hubby (who doesn’t like change or being pushed into anything that’s not his idea) was quite derogatory, scoffing that we were mad to even think it was a good idea... fast forward to three weeks ago and hubby is now obsessed with electric cars like he’d just thought of it! He’s actually on a Zoom Webinar this afternoon to discuss it 🤦🏻♀️🤣
|
|
|
|
Post by trisha on Feb 3, 2021 14:18:05 GMT
Hmm, I think that I am grey.
I am not impulsive, I do check everything out before I make a decision. Sometimes I talk myself into thinking that I don't really need something.
Other times I just give myself a good talking to. I can hear hubs saying, if you want it get it. Generally, if I didn't he would.
Trisha
|
|
|
|
Post by sunnydays on Feb 3, 2021 22:59:04 GMT
I have really enjoyed reading this so far and to me it is obvious that there are to-date only 2 other black and white people on this thread Their responses were instantaneous. A few pondered on the question and deliberated and a couple teased.  Of course, my findings are from a black and white perspective |
|
|
|
Post by Lancashire Lass on Feb 4, 2021 9:22:04 GMT
I am laughing at Beckyboo’s husband. I have one like that who flatly opposes an idea I have made then months later will suddenly suggested it. Just this week mine said, “shall we move to the seaside?” I nearly fell off my chair!!!
|
|
|
|
Post by Beckyboo on Feb 4, 2021 9:42:18 GMT
I have learned that if I want something, I have to plant a seed 6 months in advance... 😆
|
|
|
|
Post by magggzzz on Feb 4, 2021 10:42:10 GMT
I’m definitely a grey. I like to consider things from all angles although thats not to say I don’t sometimes make snap decisions. Just not often.
|
|
|
|
Post by Cj on Feb 4, 2021 14:10:19 GMT
So, you moving to the sea side LL?
I am a bit of everything, grey with regards to large expensive purchases as I like to make sure I do all the research I can first and will spend weeks before I make a decision, changing my mind constantly.
Black and white with regards to decisions that are every day and not really worth getting too worked up about. Also I can be quite blunt at times as I can't cope with people who continually allow themselves to be trampled on but then go on and on complaining endlessly about it, I am sure we all have chums/family like that...get over yersleves and do something about it is my mantra.....harsh I know...
|
|
but think SD is meaning as in decision making.
